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My theory on autism/aspergers
I believe or the conclusion I have made regarding autism/aspergers it is rooted in victim mentality, almost a defense mechanism to avoid you know life, and in a way ragequtting, by you know shutting down as an attempt to avoid the world when things get difficult, I'm saying this because I do have asperger traits, and my nervous system is incredibly weak, when people poke at me, I just get really really uncomfortable. Am I correct in my assessment of this diagnosis, because I believe if I wasn't triggered as often there would probably be no signs of autism, because I'll be back participating in the world without having self-pity and blaming others for making my life miserable. I mainly came to this conclusion after reading the powerful novella called, "Notes from the Underground" where this man who has isolated himself so much and just looping on useless and petty stuff, is that he whether he is run by a trauma ( I believe ) is what is causing him to be this isolated. Therefor is that a treatment for having a better nervous system, that does not just want to quit and have victimhood feelings?
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Those are the main traits and symptoms of Asperger syndrome.
And it can make you feel very lonely and isolated at time, living in your bubble/world.
Once the treatment is done, those symptoms will go away and sometimes others sub-symptoms too.
It's possible that having the Asperger syndrome, can increase the self-pity, victimhood and blaming feelings.
But those symptoms are not necessarily caused by the Asperger syndrome.
They have probably their own root cause that a trauma therapist will be able to help you with.
The blaming issue (self-blame, blaming other, others blaming us) and having emotionally high and low (feeling the best (ego inflation) and feeling the worst (ego deflation)), overwhelming emotions or sensations are usually a symptom of Kundalini. With Kundalini when you are in an ego deflation phase, you feel really bad about yourself and blame yourself.
But luckily we have a treatment for Kundalini.
If you want to know more about it, you can watch the research presentation that we did Dr. Mary Pellicer and me:
One last thing I want to say, is that you are not alone in your experience, even though I know that it can feel hopeless, lonely, and very difficult at times.
So knows, that someone can help you, will not judge you, and can help you heal the underlying causes and traumas causing you to feel this way. Allowing you to have a better experience and an overall more positive outlook on life and yourself.
Please reach out to one us therapist so that you can receive the proper support that are you looking for.
If your budget doesn't allow you to get help from a therapist, try to join some forum, Discord channel or sub Reddit where you could find people experiencing similar things as you so that you don't feel alone in your experience.
Julien.
I work with a lot of Asperger's people, and I see some of them having that 'victim mentality' as you say, but they are not the majority. I think Asperger's can amplify a negative view of the world, as it creates a separation, a misunderstanding, and sometime fear of the outside world, and that's factored with other traumas they might have.
When we study psychology, we have to create categories, labels, such as autism, or this or that, to isolate the phenomenon and understand it.
But people are complex and made of a lot of things, so there is an infinite combination of all factors. You can have a victim mentality combined to shcizophrenia, or not, you can have an avoidant attachement combined with aspergers, or with abandonment issue, or with a lot of guilt, or with narcissism, or not, or whatever combination.
Therefore, you are unique.
It is the hard work we do to try to isolate problems so we can treat them efficiently, but many times we see the tree hides a forest of underlying traumas...
As our research continues to make progress on severe autism, we also find out more about subclinical autism, and what the underlying problem is, so our understanding evolves with time too.
What you describe, however, might be due to simple biographical traumas (simple does not mean it is not severe and central and difficult, quite the opposite sometimes). Or it can be due to a toxin which can be reduces or healed with the BA technique and/or the projection technique.
Good luck with it!
D : Oh, nice! Is this general to sensory processing disorders, then, or just to overstimulation?
"Once the treatment is done, those symptoms will go away and sometimes others sub-symptoms too."
D : What other sub-symptoms have been noted?